Custody Criteria Checklist for Virginia
Divorce
General Principles
A. The child's welfare
B. The best interests of the child
C. No presumption or inference between parents.
Statutory Factors (Va. Section 20-107.2(1)
A. Age of the child
B. Physical Condition of Child
C. Mental Condition of Child
D. Age of each parent
E. Physical condition of each parent
F. Mental condition of each parent
G. The relationship existing between each parent and
each child
H. The needs of the child
I. The role which each parent has played, and will play
in the future, in the upbringing and care of the child
J. Such other factors as are necessary to consider the
best interests of the child
Parental Morals
A. adultery
B. homosexual
C. can't punish bad morals
Wishes of child
- Never controlling
- Older child's preference given great weight
- Physical environment of the home
- Emotional environment of the home
- The ability of child to maintain established ties
with: other relatives, friends; school & community.
- Financial resources of the parent
- Intellectual resources of the parent
- Emotional resources of the parent
- Parent's ability to provide for special educational,
medical or other needs of the child.
Relocation issues
A. The Law Court may permit or prohibit
the custodial parent removing the child from the state
whichever is in the best interests of the child.
B. Factors to consider
i. The controlling factor is the best
interests of the child.
ii. The non-custodial parent's devotion
to the child is not the issue.
iii. The issue is whether the benefit
of the relationship with the non-custodial parent
can continue after the move out of state.
iv. The increased difficulty in maintaining
the parental relationship alone is not sufficient to
deny a custodial parent the freedom to choose where
he/she and the child will live.
MORE FACTORS:
- Each parent's sense of responsibility
- Each parent's mental stability
- Each parent's overall maturity
- Need to keep child with mother
- Need to keep child in a two-parent home
- Parent's willingness to afford other
parent close contact with child
- Parent's inability to separate interpersonal
difficulties from parenting
- Amount of anger and bitterness between
parents
- Geographic proximity of parental homes
- Child's behavior at school both academically
and personally
- Sex of child
- Each parent's previous child care taking
involvement
- Influences of extended family members
- Flexibility of parent's work schedule
- Parent's economic stability
- Type of day care available for child
- Number of children in the family
- Marital status of parents
- Differences between parent's religious
beliefs and/or practices
- Economic & physical similarities
and differences between parental homes
- Child's bonding with each parent
- Which parent primary caretaker before
divorce
- Which parent primary caretaker after
divorce
- Which parent exhibits better parenting
skills
- Which parent is more tolerant of other
parent visits
- Is either parent involved in sexual
relationship that impacts on child
- Which parent resides in child's current
school zone
- Which parent was primary disciplinarian
- Either parent cohabitating with someone
to whom not married
- Which parent involved in child's schooling
- Must analyze circumstances of both parents
and children-negative and positive
- Which home will provide children with
greatest opportunity to fulfill their potentials as
individuals and members of society
In determining the suitability of the respective homes,
it depends largely on warmth, stability and the general
nature of home life, taking into consideration the following:
1. Respective work schedules, home environments
and arrangements of the care of the children during
the parent's absence;
2. Location of home to church, school
and other institutions;
3. Moral climate in which children are
to be raised is an important consideration.
4. Where wife's failure to establish home
with a child may well have been due to the husband's
failure to provide her support and for the support of
the child, the order of custody to the father should
be reconsidered.
5. Home suitability is not determined
simply by comparing physical property or material advantages.
The court is more interested in the warmth of the home
environment, the kind of home life the child can be
expected to experience.
6. You need a definite plan as to how
a parent would take care of the children. Where one
parent did not see the children or seek custody for
an extended period of time after separation and where
the children live with the parent and are well adjusted
and happy and express a desire to remain with that parent,
a transfer of custody would not be appropriate.
7. Everything else being equal, mixing
children of different families should be avoided where
possible since in such homes jealousy and other problems
often develop.
8. Character and habits a person seeking
custody must show to be such that provision for child's
comfort and moral development can be reasonably expected.
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