A Virginia family law firm, on your side.
We’ve guided generations of Northern Virginia families through divorce, custody, and support matters — with the experience of a top-tier firm and the care of people who’ve been through it with you before.
50+
Years guiding Virginia families, together
Divorce is hard. Having the right attorney beside you doesn't have to be.
Since 1974
Decades of trusted counsel
We know that going through a divorce is one of the most stressful situations someone can experience. Beyond the emotional strain, there are countless legal components to navigate — and we've been guiding clients through them for over fifty years.
Real Experience
Attorneys who listen first
So whether you have questions about divorce, custody, support, distribution of property, or divorce contact us to schedule an appointment. You can trust our attorneys to advise and represent you with respect and diligence.
Northern Virginia
Offices in Reston & Alexandria
We serve the City of Fairfax, Springfield, and all of Fairfax County; Leesburg and all of Loudoun County; Arlington, Manassas and all of Prince William County; Fredericksburg, Spotsylvania, Stafford, and all of Northern Virginia.
Call us today about your family issues
From offices in Reston and Alexandria, our attorneys serve families across Northern Virginia through every stage of a family law matter.
Divorce Laws in Virginia
For most people, the prospect of getting a divorce is incredibly emotional and stressful. Our clients often tell us that the unknowns surrounding what will be involved in the process, or what will happen after they are divorced, are the most anxiety-provoking parts.
Child Support
In Virginia, the amount a parent will pay in child support is determined by applying the statutory Virginia Child Support Guidelines.
Child Custody
Deciding on the child custody and visitation arrangements for your child can be one of the most difficult and challenging aspects of your family law case.
Distribution of Property
Virginia is an “equitable distribution” state, which means that the court will seek to equitably divide property and debts based upon the statutory factors outlined in Virginia Code Section 20-107.3.
Protective Orders in Virginia
In Virginia, you may get a protective order if you have been the victim of abuse by a family or household member. A protective order may be necessary to prevent further acts of abuse.
Marital Agreements
At any time after your marriage, you and your spouse may decide to enter into a marital agreement to address how your rights and responsibilities will be determined.
Step Parent Adoption
When a parent remarries and the new spouse wishes to adopt the parent’s child, the birth parent and the new spouse may petition together for the new spouse to adopt the child.
Complex Family Issue
When your family has accumulated significant wealth and property, you are understandably concerned about how the assets will be divided by the court.
Prenuptial/Postnuptial Agreements
Virginia’s laws surrounding marriage and divorce apply uniformly to all Virginia residents. But, every couple is different. Some couples, particularly those marrying later in life, join lives with already complicated property interests of his/her own.
Knowledgeable, reliable, and effective — by your side
When going through the often difficult process of divorce or other domestic relations matters, it’s important to have a knowledgeable, reliable, and effective family and divorce attorney by your side. In the ever-changing world of family law, Grenadier, Duffett, Levi, Winkler & Rubin, P.C. provides the experience and guidance needed to help you through your family legal matters — whether separate maintenance, divorce, custody, or other family relations matters.
10+
Industry Awards
100+
Years of Combined Experience
Northern VA
Coverage Across the Region
Pathways to your future
Every family’s situation is different. We’ll help you find the path that fits yours — from the most collaborative option to full litigation, if that’s what’s needed.
Divorce Planning
Understand your legal options and build a personalized divorce strategy.
Mediation
A neutral third party helps you and your spouse reach agreement outside of court.
Negotiation
Attorneys negotiate directly on your behalf to settle terms efficiently.
Arbitration
A private, binding decision from an arbitrator when negotiation stalls.
Litigation
When needed, we advocate for you in court with the same care and diligence.
Property Settlement
Understand how Virginia law classifies and divides marital property fairly.
“I want to express my deepest gratitude for all your help and dedication in representing my brother throughout his divorce process. During such a difficult and stressful time, your patience, professionalism, and compassion have meant more than words can say. My heart is filled with immense gratitude for everything you have done. May God always bless you for your kindness and the care you show to others. I will always keep you in my heart with great affection and appreciation.”
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“John Winkler represented me on a number of legal matters spanning more than a decade. I very much appreciated his knowledge of the law, professionalism and fairness.”
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“During the most stressful time of my life Ilona and Carolyn helped me relax, focus on my children, home and career. Their knowledge, kindness, patience and efficient dedication helped me not only survive divorce but come out of the process a better woman and mother. Stop right now and look no further, if you are beginning your journey of divorce this is the BEST team you will ever work with!! You are in the best hands possible. I will forever be greatful for their assistance. You wilI be happy you contacted them.”
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